What kind of mother does not search for her missing child???????
1): The mother of the boy(17 year old Mack) that was murdered with our son
NEVER searched for her son.
There is absolutely NOTHING that could ever keep me from searching for my child. There is no excuse that is even remotely acceptable for NOT searching for your missing child. You put your life on hold,and you don't worry about going to work, or
GOING HOME & GOING TO BED, or DOCTOR's ORDERS or any of the other excuses I have heard from this other mother.....YOU DROP
EVERYTHING AND YOU GO AND SEARCH FOR YOUR MISSING CHILD....
PERIOD!!! She has made up every excuse in the book as to why she did not. She has even told everyone that the Sheriff's dept. kept calling her, telling her not to go down to where we, our family & friends were searching. THAT IS A LIE. They never told her that. We have already spoken with the authorities and they NEVER told her that.
However, she did ride out to where we were searching in the woods around 12 midnight the night before we found them. With her was the boy (Jarren) that had RJ's truck hidden in his yard while RJ was missing and some little skinny crackhead girl named "Brandy" with her. I still don't know why they rode out there (although, I do have my ideas) and only stayed for 10 minutes and NEVER offered to help. When she was asked if she was going to help us search for the boys her reply was....."I can't, my neck and my back hurts and I have to go home and go to bed so I can go to work in the morning".
She seemed to be more concerned with her job than she did with her missing son....I found that very difficult to grasp, since my whole world was put on hold until I found my child. I didn't give a damn about my job or anything else for that matter, I only wanted to find my child and I was not stopping until I did just that. There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING that could have stopped me from searching for my son. I would have walked through hell on Sunday. I could have been on my death bed, and I would have made someone throw me and the bed on the back of the truck...what ever it took, I did not care about anything but finding my child.
RJ WAS NEVER IN TROUBLE A DAY IN HIS LIFE (that upsets her off when I say that because there was a juvenile pick up order on her son while he was missing). I have no reason to lie, I am not trying to make RJ look like an angel, but I can tell you that he was never in trouble and always home by curfew EVERY NIGHT!!!! He loved to be home with his family and he loved to be home to work on his music.
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Here is an excerpt straight from her site that I have saved in my documents, just read for yourself all of her excuses......
These 2 children, Mack & RJ, were missing & lie dead in a ditch in the woods
in Briar Creek State Park leased from the Corps of Engineers (US Army) for 3 days.
RJ's parents and family did a continuous ground search for 3 days for which I will be
endlessly grateful. I was physically unable to assist in the physical ground search for
our missing children, because of complications from a motor vehicle accident and I
was under doctors' orders NOT to go. However, this does not mean that I love my
child any less or more than RJ's family loves him and that I was not making the
necessary phone calls to find our children (... I COULD NOT SEARCH AND STAYED AT HOME
PER DOCTORS' ORDERS, AFTER MY APPOINTMENTS...)
I had no one to immediately call upon on my behalf to take my place in the search;
my family members could not for various reasons as they had families and jobs.
The 3 times (Tues, Weds, & Thurs) I did attempt to go to Cottonton, AL,
to assist in the search, (the last time I WAS ENROUTE with my mother on the morning they
were found) & the Sheriff's Dept did call my cell phone and tell me not to go to Briar Creek
to come straight to the Sheriff's Dept (10:10 a.m.) During the 3 days the Sheriff's Department
DID call to ask several times where I was and TOLD me to NOT go down there for the search.
In the days to follow after Mack & RJ were found, I was told to "find my "Comfort Zone",
accept the fact that my child is not coming home, and get on with my life."
All of the Davis' families efforts and tenacity
are to be commended, admired, and praised.
For the remainder of my life, I shall be forever grateful
and thankful for their unrelenting efforts.
Analysis:
None of these lame excuses, would have kept me, my husband, my other son, and other family members from searching for RJ. The truth is, THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR NOT SEARCHING FOR YOUR MISSING CHILD!!!! My own sister and her husband stayed out of work to help us find RJ....and my sister at the time was not "physically able" to do a ground search, but she did anyway.
We, the "Davis family" are not looking to be commended, admired or praised for searching.....we did what any loving, caring parents would do....we kept searching until we found our child!!!!!
A): Sheriff's Dept. told her not to go help with the search. That is a lie!!!!!
B): She was not "physically able to do a ground search" (well hello!!! ride in your damn car if nothing else)
C): She had all these doctors telling her that she could not search because she was not "physically able". (... I COULD NOT SEARCH AND STAYED AT HOME PER DOCTORS' ORDERS, AFTER MY APPOINTMENTS...) Well who the hell goes to the doctor when their child is missing??
D:) She had no one to help her with the search. Well there was plenty of our family and RJ's friends down there with us, all she had to do was come on and help and show a little bit of concern for her missing son.
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Another excerpt from her site..... ON My first trip to this GOD-forsaken place the night before the boys
were found (8:35 p.m. until 11:30 p.m.),
WITH THE "BEST FRIEND" (who at the time I did NOT think was involved) I was in
Cottonton, AL, for 3 hours (talking to people, showing flyers, & waiting for the Deputy
to arrive to show me where Briar Creek was), BUT NOT WHERE THE DAVIS' WERE parked in a field. The
Authorities asked me to "WAIT for them~ A DEPUTY IS ON HIS WAY TO YOU~
& stay PUT THAT I SHOULD NOT AND WAS NOT SUPPOSED TO BE THERE"~
WHEN THE DEPUTY CAME TO ME, I WAS APPROVED TO FOLLOW HIM TO BRIAR
CREEK~BUT NOT TO GO BY MYSELF OR STAY WITH THE "SEARCH PARTY"~& REALLY
I "SHOULD NOT BE TALKING TO THEM"!~some people get angry at the wrong people
if they don't hear what they want.. ....WHETHER IT IS TRUE OR FALSE...
MACK IS DEAD...HE DID NOT KILL ANYONE OR HAVE ANYONE KILLED...IT WAS NOT
HIS IDEA TO GO TO BRIAR CREEK TO COLLECT ANYONE'S MONEY OR SELL ANY KIND OF DRUG...
KIDS WITHOUT MONEY OR CARS..ARE NOT DRUG DEALERS...HE GOT CAUGHT UP WITH THE
WRONG TYPE FRIEND...&&& SINCE HE IS DEAD AND CANNOT SPEAK...IT IS SO EASY TO LAY
BLAME ON HIM...& HIS MOTHER....& WHEN PRESENTED WITH EVIDENCE THAT PROVES THEM WRONG...
WAYNE ALLEN (JARREN'S GRANDDAD) DID PUT TOGETHER A TEAM OF HORSEBACK RIDERS TO ASSIST IN
THE SEARCH FOR MACK (HE KNEW I WAS NOT ABLE TO SEARCH) & RJ, AS MACK WAS HIS 15 YEAR OLD
GRANDSON'S BEST FRIEND and they loved him like a son as well, (he would not let him search as he was
"just a kid; HE'S ONLY 15 and if this was meant for him"..he was not going to have him put in harms way
but he would let him ride with me & show me where they were, ACCORDING TO PAUL, taken to") AND I
BESEECHED HIM TO ASSIST IN THE SEARCH AS NONE OF MY FAMILY MEMBERS WERE ABLE TO ...
& I WAS TOLD I COULD NOT....ESPECIALLY BY MYSELF & WITH "NO
CLEAR DIRECTIONS" AS TO WHERE ANYONE WAS SEARCHING..."JUST COME DOWN THERE, you'll see us"...
WHEN I DID NOT EVEN KNOW WHERE "DOWN THERE WAS" AS I NEVER WENT CAMPING OR FISHING
"DOWN THERE" WHEN I WAS YOUNGER....
THE AUTHORITIES ASKED WHO WOULD BE GOING WITH ME...
I TOLD THEM THE DAVIS' WERE THERE ALREADY...I WAS INFORMED IT WOULD NOT BE A GOOD IDEA
& THAT I COULD NOT GO TO BRIAR CREEK AND STAY AWAY FROM COTTONTON, AL.
MACK WAS 17 YEARS OLD...& A 17 YEAR OLD'S FRIENDS ARE NOT CHOSEN BY MOTHERS...
Analysis:
A):If she was in Cottonton for 3 hours like she claims, why didn't she call us and let us know??? (everyone had their cell phones). And make a little effort to search for her son.
And further more, I thought she had "DOCTORS ORDERS" not to go down there.
B): The authorities told her that she should not be talking to us????? Our children were missing together.
Ok, so far we've got....the authorities would not allow her to go down there....but she plainly states that she did, and then they told her not to talk to us.......YEAH RIGHT!!!!
C): OK, she was down there for 3 hours showing flyers and talking to people (funny, we never saw her there in those 3 hours) and she damn sure wasn't searching. We are talking about a very small place, if someone else was there, we would have known and we talked to everyone there and no one told us there was another person down there searching. And yet she is not supposed to be there (per authorities) but they are sending a deputy to meet her and show her where Briar Creek was, but yet all these people she supposedly talked to, no one could tell her where Briar Creek was, only the deputy that was on his way down there.
D):NO!!!! RJ WAS NOT BEST FRIENDS WITH JARREN LIKE HER SON MACK WAS!!! ANOTHER LIE!!!! HER SON AND JARREN WERE BEST FRIENDS. RJ KNEW THEM BUT WAS NOT GOOD FRIENDS WITH THEM. HIS BEST FRIENDS WERE JERROD AND JUSTIN NEWMAN, THOMAS EDEN, & BRANDON BOWENS, ALL OF WHICH GREW UP WITH RJ AND THEY ALL KNOW JARREN AND THEY KNEW MACK. JUST BECAUSE YOU KNOW SOMEONE DOESN'T MAKE YOU THEIR BEST FRIEND. AND RJ'S FRIENDS WERE A TOTALLY DIFFERENT CROWD THEN JARREN AND MACK AND THEIR FRIENDS. RJ DID NOT "HANG OUT" WITH JARREN AND MACK. SURE, HE'S BEEN TO THEIR HOUSE, BUT THAT DOESN'T MAKE HIM BEST FRIENDS WITH THEM.
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